Talk to us. So often I hear about how much men need sex, but my husband has no interest in sex. The only time we make love is when I initiate it. Is there something wrong with me? Donalyn: Well first of all, there is nothing wrong with you! The first response of most women in your situation is to second-guess or blame themselves. Dave: That is right Donalyn. We sometimes have the idea that for men, the sexual experience is detached from what is going on inside. If he feels emotionally distant from his wife, and especially if he feels like a failure in any way, it can lead to a lack of confidence, and therefore, a lack of interest in sex.
When Your Husband Won’t Have Sex with You
Recently, I received a message from a wife who was desperately looking for some advice. She shared with me that her husband is a kind, loving, and wonderful man in every way EXCEPT he rarely, if ever, wants to have sex with her. In fact, they have gone months at a time without making love, and the absence of intimacy and connection in their marriage is breaking her heart and making her resent her husband.
Why Is My Husband Not Interested in Sex?
If you're new here, you may want to get my discreet newsletter to learn how to make your lover sexually obsessed with you and only you. Click here to get it. It's free. It's discreet. Is your husband not interested in sex? Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your lover scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. First, you need to determine the possible reason.
Is he unhappy? Is he having an affair? Life can get hectic, and as a result, sex can hit the backburner. Especially if you have kids, it might not be top of mind for him to come home from work and initiate sex right away. The key here is normalizing the fact that your priorities are bound to change throughout the course of your lifetimes.